Yearning to play

I was at a friend's party when a woman came up to me with a small deck of tarot cards. I drew the 5 of cups, to which she said: Play.  It's good advice, for I've been working too hard without time for play.  I am missing long, lazy days spent in hotel rooms. I miss focusing my energies on just one person at a time, and sweet, sensual play an hour at a time.

So I am planning a little May Day celebration, to take time out and open my sacred temple once more.  I'm beginning preparations now; eating healthy and pampering my body, anointing myself with sacred oils. Meditating nightly on the erotic energies I shall be a channel for, those I want to attract and release.


May 1 and 2. Mark your calanders, and email me early. I'm not going to squeeze a bunch in, I'd rather leave a few hours in between and take in downtown and try not to spend it all on clothing.

We shall see.

Sharing Secrets

One thing I miss dearly is sharing secrets. We all have a need for secrecy, and we all have a secret self that we keep from the vast majority of the world. I keep my secret self so close because I've realized it is close to my true self, and I don't want it viewed in the wrong light, or by those who would judge harshly.

But within a safe space, that hidden self can come out into the light. It makes one both vulnerable and empowered. It creates that magical, hermetic container that can heal, give wisdom and self-knowledge.

We can't let all secrets out, no matter what idealistic argument might be put forward.  But giving them some fresh air, dusting them off and letting a little light shine on them can remind us what we treasure so much about them.

Congrats, you found me!

Welcome to my new blog.

I am working on a twitter feed for shorter, daily updates about my schedule, and a more focused subject matter. I want to focus more on the sacred sexual, sensual healing, shadow work and sex magic.

I was always concerned that I would frighten men away if I started calling myself a sacred whore or temple harlot. Religion & spirituality can be a touchy, even frightening subject to some. Culturally, there is this strange idea that sex is dirty and sinful. This comes mostly from Christianity and other Abrahamic religions, but even a few mystics believe the body is to be transcended.

I say.... what better way to transcend the physical than through it?