Monday, August 26, 2013

Summers Ending Already?

The summer has gone by so quickly. May, June, July all seemed to pass by in a blink of an eye.  Now, August is nearing its end, with the annual Burner Exodus. I still seek a better balance between my day job and being a companion. The job is such that I can easily let my mind drift while I settle into a Zen bookbinding meditation.

Lately, it drifts off into various imagined encounters. I try to imagine what my temple would look like, the altar dedicated with curvaceous Goddess statues, candles, a luxurious bed with purple sheets. Make it feel royal, a place between worlds, where two divine beings can come together for a moment and mingle in pleasure.

It is close...dedicating my energy to this manifestation. The months come around, and a new year of Sacred Courtesan school is coming around. What new insights will I learn, new healings to share, what new depths will I discover within myself?

Friday, August 23, 2013

Visiting the Banya

After my two weeks of making hundreds of books and discovering just how little I want to be someone's boss, I took the day off to check out the relatively new Banya in SF. Oh my.

Not since NYC, years ago, have I been to a proper Russian sauna with a cold plunge. There are clothing optional sections, but lots of people wear swim trunks or bikinis.  I'm in love with it, just after one visit.  The steam sauna was also amazing.  After a few rounds of steaming, cold plunging, sweating and soaking, there is a lovely balcony to take in the sun and the fresh breeze. There, you can chat with new and old friends, share a bottle of wine, and have some light snacks before heading back down into the tubs for a second round.

It's during the second round that I laid out and had a birch leaf treatment.  They soak the dried leaves to release the tannins and slap them across the skin to open up the pores.  It's done in the Russian sauna, so you are already warm and sweating. Once done, it's another cold plunge. 

I spent a little over six hours. Well worth it.  This is something that needs to become regular. 

Thursday, August 8, 2013

Missing You!

I volunteered to babysit while my supervisor went on a well deserved vacation. After taking much time off for my program, for more introspection and seeing a few clients when I could....I figured it was the least I could do for being so flexible for me.  I've learned a lot about myself in these couple of weeks. Things that eight months studying the chakras didn't teach me.

First...I have no interest being someone's boss. Especially people who have
spent their lives being micromanaged.

Second...I desire people to think for themselves, and I truly believe we all have that ability. I want a world where we honor ourselves and each other, and there's no sense of taking advantage for a better profit. Seeing otherwise day after day is soul-killing.

Third...I need more time to myself, more spaciousness and more working for myself.

I'm going to be so happy to take time off. Part of it will need to include time spent in a tree. A few nights set aside for clients. And lots of time in between to dance naked, and luxuriate in the solitude needed for more depthful writing.

Tuesday, July 23, 2013

Sunday Kinda Blues

I think this past Sunday marked the most number of dates I had to turn down due to a lack of an incall. I don't work most Sundays, but I almost always get at least one call. This Sunday, I had four. And they seemed really nice, I hated to turn them down.

I have been examining the phenomenon of getting more calls when I am unavailable than when I am available. Is it confusing wording in the ad? Is it energetic?  A part of why I crave a private space is so I can be more available, without having to stop in my other creative endeavors. I imagine spending a morning writing, or a late night working on art, punctuated by a gentleman caller. Far from interrupting, he is a fresh burst of inspiration. As I play the muse for some, so he does for me.

The next few weeks mark a refocusing of energies, taking time to help on a few bookbinding projects. To call in what is desired will require me to put new plans into action, and focused time spent on them.  My availability will be affected temporarily, particularly for incalls.

Monday, July 8, 2013

The Babylonian Follow-up

Preparations had been happening for weeks...invitations sent, the volunteers organized, space reserved and prepared, food made.  I was in a flurry of details.

The event, for me, really began when I stripped down in preparations. Ritual purification before the rites.   Several of my classmates-participants in the evening's ceremonies-had never seen me naked.  The Witch-Whore in me just took control at that point.  Boldly strolling out to finish dressing the altar, me in nothing but jewerly(which has quickly become my favorite outfit) and offering oil annointings before the rites began.

By the time our first seekers began arriving, I had changed into a red dress that hugged my curves in all the right ways. There was a generous social hour to allow everyone to mingle a bit; for many of us to meet for the first time, for some a chance to reconnect. 

A chiming of a bell marked the entrance into ritual space. The Sacred, around us all the time, was presenced and invoked. The inner Primal, the lusty beast of our animal drives, was welcomed into the space, given license to play. Stripping down, I was offered up to these unleashed primals, in culmination  of the opening ceremony.

First one man, then two...it seemed to happen both slowly and quickly at once, I was encircled by lustful men. From the corner of my eye, I saw my fellow priestesses were as well. What was left was stripped down, my bra....the garter belt and stockings down to bare flesh. 

Temple dancing girls danced the carnal energy around the circle as the Primals played. Flesh meeting flesh, limbs entangling these women, filling every orifice. Their moans of erotic delight and surrender mixing with undulating melodies.

As I opened, I was filled, again and again. With each new man, a new level of surrender, a new experience.  And to worship another man while another takes his fill of me--oh my! To feel that push-pull of energy, to be caught between two carnal beasts was amazing in a way that is hard to put into words. And as each men spilled their seed, another man was there to take his place.  

The energy ebbed and flowed like this for quite a while. While on their breaks, the men were entertained by the dancing girls, attended to by enchanting priestesses. To balance the carnal delights, there was engaging intellectual conversations and finely made liquors available. 

As the evening grew later, the energy shifting into an affectionate, sensual mix of connection and adoration for each man's divine complexity. They were all invited to shower in a soft play of shared touch and a grounding of energy with salts and water. 

Each man sent on his way with a secret smile on his face, his Primal worshipped, adorned, given freedom to play and express his carnal desires, soothed and grounded back to earth. A truly unique and sacred evening that could never be fully replicated.

...that won't stop us from improving the experience.

The next Babylonian Rites is July 19th, with sensual music, sacred play space, dancing priestesses and serving girls, hand-crafted drinks, juicy women and a nonjudgmental place for erotic expression.

Our ad and short application can be found here: The Babylonian Rites Application

Sunday, July 7, 2013

Initiation

The thing with Initiation: it never really ends.

More than eight months ago, I began a program for certification as an Intimacy and Relationship Coach.  It has been a wild ride of introspective work, expanding my edges while reinforcing my boundaries with compassion. 

Just a few weeks ago, the heat was turned up: Sophia Amelia and I had our first Babylonian Rites as part of our final project. The week after than was our Initiation Weekend--which was part ordeal, part teaching, part coming together in celebration for our completion. It was an intense and fantastic experience that signaled an ever deepening move into what I want for the world.

And, of course, as I moved deeper into spirit, I lost touch with the blog.  One of so many things that I am seeking to balance in the coming months.  In October, I will be officially ordained!  Pastoral counseling will be Something I can offer at that point.  Yes, a whore who can give you confession when you are finished.

So, apologies if I've been a little out of touch. There have been lots of details to attend to! 

Monday, June 10, 2013

Babylonian Rites

Babylonian Rites

Candlelight flickers, a soft glow against naked flesh. So many candles, lighting the ancient temple for this night's carnal ritual. Warm light against hot flesh. Bodies writhing together, moans mixing with temple musicians song. Tribal drums beat out a magical beat, evoking the Primal, this Animal of Lust that must be satisfied. 

Temple priestesses offer themselves up as vessels to these energies, dancers and servers playing delightful games with the seekers. All things are sacred to the Goddess, and this night celebrates the joy of sex and the sensual world, from intimate stroking to the deepest rutting.  Yes, even when the men would take one for three or four of them, ravaging her as sexual sacrifice. These animal desires are better released in sacred space than held in denial. 

The temple gates are opening once again, and you are invited inside, to partake of your deepest desires, to release your primal lust on the wanton nymphs who are desperate for it.


What is the Babylonian Rites?

An exclusive play party than honors the sensual, our primal lusts, and reminds us that the Sacred is everywhere. It evokes the temple rites in Babylon and other ancient civilization, where The Goddess was honored in the living bodies of every woman, and the Divine was celebrated through sexual union.

We have a group many women who feel called to honor the sacred within the taboo, offering sensual, erotic, and spiritual services of both sexual and non-sexual nature. We are inviting you to bring out your lust-filled primal and let it play, let it be revered for its power.  Honoring these energies in sacred space gives us more freedom in our day to day life, a way of freeing us from shame.

What can be expected?

You will greeted warmly and led into the temple prepared for the evening. There will be tea, fresh fruit and homemade treats offered to you; finger foods designed for then sensual experience. Spirits and wine offered. Beautiful preiestesses offer their services to you, attending to all your sensual needs. You can expect a very warm and nonjudgmental space in which to explore your fantasies. 

Will it happen again?
As with most things, it will never be perfectly recreated. This is our first fundraising event, with more planned in the future.  They will be different, with different people, a different vibe or venue.  But similar events will be advertised in the future. 

We want to see every one of our limited slots are filled for this event!
Just a few more days to register!  Interested?

Email: temple.priestesses@gmail.com

In order to create a safe space for everyone, there is a short screening process. Please send an email answering the following questions:  

1. Provide at least one verifiable provider reference. Send a link to her ad and to speed up the process, ask her if she will verify you.  

If you do not have verifiable references, send us an email with all the other questions answered and we'll see if we can collaborate to find a solution that feels safe for all of us.  

2. Are you comfortable in a setting of group sexuality and/or is this a new experience for you? 

3. What would you hope to experience by being part of this event?